Problems in sexual life are often cause separation. Listening to advice of psychologists, you can save love, make communication with your partner stronger and avoid boredom in bed.
We will introduce you the best advices, which will help you to enjoy life and satisfy your love.
What to do?
Everything is simple:
- Study your own body. Don`t rush to pick up anatomy book. Literature from “18+” section will help you to understand your body and possibilities of getting pleasure. People, who know themselves well, understand partner desires better and guaranteed their sexual experience improving.
- Learn to love yourself. Your reflection in mirror – not all. Self-confidence, self-love, ability to accept all your flaws is what makes person sexual and desirable to others. Self-criticism is useful in metered amount only. You can`t demand love and admiration from your partner, if you don`t know how to treat yourself.
- Abstracted Proximity requires total commitment. You need to learn to focus on what is happening at moment, now and here. Household problems, work and care for loved ones wait.
- Follow the desires. If you want intimacy and your partner is in same mood, fine. If you are tired or not tuned to desired mode – feel free to say it as it is. It is important to listen to yourself and not agree to intimacy through force, only because your second half wants it.
- Nobody should do anything to anyone. To treat sex as “marital duty” is wrong. Intimate relationships should bring joy and lot of positive emotions. Duty, whatever it may be, can`t give such sensations.
- Speak openly. Intimacy becomes better if partners are close on spiritual level. It is necessary to talk heart to heart every day. Speak openly, speak directly, share all, that disturbs you. Do it in romantic and relaxing atmosphere and unforgettable passionate continuation of evening is guaranteed.
- Don`t refuse experiments. Do you think that experiments in bed are superfluous? Don`t rush abandon partners ideas and suggestions.
- Maintain physical health. Problems with potency and libido for men aren`t uncommon. Against background of hormonal disruptions, sensuality, sexual activity in women also decreases. It is important to listen to your body and respond alarm bells in time.
- Fall asleep and wake up together. If there is no reason to sleep separately, don`t take risks. Refusal to share sleep during pregnancy or in first months after child birth is bad idea. This is sure path to relationship problems.
- Refuse lie. Lying in intimate sphere and lying in everyday life are one and same. Can’t get pleasure from intercourse? Tell your partner about it, tell about your desires, share your fantasies. This is better, than “tolerating” intimacy and lying to loved one.
- Take break from each other. Long wait is guarantee of sweet meeting. Short separation will have positive effect on both relationship and intimacy of beloved.
So, as you can see, there is no hard things, which can cause problems. Remember them and everything will be fine.